He has lost interest all of a sudden

I just read an article that really put light to the unfair standards expected of women in relationships these days. I ask myself how society, or whoever came up with these rules, got here.

We all know the typical story. Boy meets girl. Boy is very interested and into girl, but girl is reluctant about pushing anything with the guy. Guy calls everyday, takes girl  on a few dates and seems to be so into the lady. Eventually, girl starts falling for the guy and BOOM!! Guy starts to lose interest and distance himself. So many times, we ask ourselves what went wrong.

The article I just read stated that the reason men are suddenly turned off in such situations is that they are all of a sudden overwhelmed with the woman's unexpected emotional reciprocity to their wooing. Really? What was the lady supposed to do? stay emotionless? Why are you wooing the lady if you don't expect her to like you back. Is there even anything as liking your partner "too much" in a "genuine" relationship? I think the men should be happy and excited that the lady has grown to like them back that much. Isn't that what you wanted in the first place? So it's okay for a man to show emotions, but not okay for a woman? the woman who fearlessly exposes her emotions is seen as "desperate" while it's okay for the man who sprung her along to feel overwhelmed? Lies!! I will say he wasn't that into you in the first place.

The number one reason why this happens is because the man isn't ready. Common sense tells me a man who is ready will be excited to find a woman who is into him. The most rampant reason why men string women like this is sex. He definitely just wants to get into your pants and wasn't expecting you to like him back that much. Therefore, he fears and gets overwhelmed when you start to express your emotions.

Dear, hurting lady. There is nothing wrong with you. Wipe your tears and move on. If he didn't see the genuineness in you, then he doesn't deserve you. A man who is into you and is ready, will love you right back. Don't become an angry woman towards all potential suitors because you are trying to meet society's standard of expressing your emotions. If you love him, tell him. If u miss him text him. How he reacts to your emotions at this stage will indicate to you how he really feels. And trust me, it is better to know earlier than later. If he feels turned off by your emotions so soon, he ain't ready. Drop him instantly and move on. Yeah, I know. It hurts. But you will be fine, and that will make you available for the right man to find you. Good luck.